A Sermon Delivered on December 14, 2025 by the Rev. Dr. Patrick H. Wrisley.
On this third Sunday of Advent, the lectionary places us squarely in the middle of Matthew’s gospel, far away from shepherds, angel choruses, and that silent Bethlehem night. And frankly, it feels a little jarring. Where are Mary and Joseph? Where’s the manger? Where’s the warm glow that starts moving us toward Christmas? This third Sunday in Advent has us with John the Baptist in prison.
It’s helpful to remember that the first two Sundays of Advent focus on Christ’s coming at Christmas but also his coming at the culmination of time. The last two Sundays turn our attention toward Christ’s first coming—his birth. And here on this Third Sunday of Advent, Joy Sunday, the primary figure who stands before us is John the Baptist, the fiery prophet who prepares the way.
John and Jesus are more than ministry partners; they are actually cousins. They’ve known each other nearly thirty years. And John has been preaching with fiery conviction that the Messiah is on His way, and that when He arrives, judgment will come with Him. As John warned the religious officials earlier in Matthew 3:10:
The ax is already lying at the root of the trees; every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
Not exactly the guy you invite to your Christmas party.
John imagined the Messiah as a strong political and spiritual liberator; the Messiah was to be a commander who would rally Israel back into holy nationhood and cleanse the world of unrighteousness. The Baptist expected separation, division, a great sorting-out of the righteous ones and everyone else. And then Matthew goes radio silence on John until today’s text in Matthew 11. —silence. Listen now for God’s Word:
Matthew 11:2–11
2 When John heard in prison what the Messiah was doing, he sent word by his disciples3 and said to him, “Are you the one who is to come, or are we to wait for another?”4 Jesus answered them, “Go and tell John what you hear and see: 5 the blind receive their sight, the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the poor have good news brought to them.6 And blessed is anyone who takes no offense at me.”
7 As they went away, Jesus began to speak to the crowds about John: “What did you go out into the wilderness to look at? A reed shaken by the wind? 8 What then did you go out to see? Someone dressed in soft robes? Look, those who wear soft robes are in royal palaces. 9 What then did you go out to see? A prophet? Yes, I tell you, and more than a prophet. 10 This is the one about whom it is written, ‘See, I am sending my messenger ahead of you, who will prepare your way before you.’ 11 Truly I tell you, among those born of women no one has arisen greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he.
Let’s take a moment and look at expectations vs. reality. This passage is soaked through with disappointment, confusion, and unmet expectations. John the Baptist—this mighty prophet who had announced Jesus with such certainty—is now sitting in a prison cell wondering whether he got it wrong. “Are you the one, or do we wait for another?” He may feel just like Clark Griswold did finally arriving at Wally World only to find the gates chained shut; John’s voice has a tinge of disappointment to it.
John expected a cleansing fire. Instead, Jesus is healing the blind and blessing the poor.
John expected judgment. Jesus is offering mercy.
John expected power. Jesus is practicing compassion.
And John’s confusion is honest. He had preached faithfully. He had done everything God asked of him. But now, imprisoned and defeated, he wonders whether Jesus is the Messiah he thought he introduced. Or has he misread the signs? Jesus’ response to John’s disciples is gentle and pastoral; he helps John reframe the signs that have been demonstrated. He tells them, “Go tell John what you hear and see.”
Jesus doesn’t delve into theories or theology. He does not give them a sermon indicating where John was wrong. Jesus tells them to share their personal experience. And here is the key: Jesus quotes Malachi 3:1 reminding John and his disciples that God’s vision for the Messiah has always been bigger, wider, and more beautiful than John’s expectations.
John expected exclusion; Jesus brought inclusion and expansion.
John expected the separation of sinners; Jesus brought sinners home.
John expected strict adherence to the Law of righteousness; Jesus redefined the Law of righteousness as the expression of love.
But John isn’t the only one with expectations in our Story this morning. Jesus turns to the crowd and asks, almost teasingly,
What did you expect to see out there? A flimsy reed? A man in fine clothes? A celebrity prophet?
Everyone had expectations about who John should be. Everyone had expectations about who and what the Messiah should be and do. And nothing Jesus or John did quite matched the script or Story people expected. Honestly, we’re no different. We often carry unspoken expectations of Jesus, for Jesus, and of God, into our own faith. For example, we have our own ideas and expectations on –
Who God should love and who God should judge.
On exactly how God should answer our prayers.
Why bad things happen to good people.
What “religious people” should act and be like.
What Jesus should do for me.
On how Jesus would vote.
You see, we bring our own emotional, cultural, political, and spiritual baggage into our relationship with God and we project it onto Jesus. But our expectations, like John’s, are often too small, too narrow, too human.
So, what are your expectations this Christmas? What do you expect of Jesus as we approach the manger?
Do you expect comfort?
Do you expect anything extraordinary at all?
Do you expect the same-old, same-old holiday routine?
Do you expect Jesus to meet you in your real need?
Do you expect healing? Hope? Joy?
Or maybe, have your expectations become too small? This Advent, I invite you to reflect on three questions to help you reframe your Christmas expectations.
First, what are your expectations for Christmas? If you don’t expect anything different to happen for you, ask yourself why.
Second, do your expectations of Jesus reflect His teachings or your personal preference? Do they match the values of the Beatitudes or the values of FOX news, nostalgia, or fear?
Finally, ask yourself if your expectations of Jesus are too small. What is the largest, most gracious vision of Christ’s reign you can imagine in our world today? Then reflect how might God be calling you to help make that vision real right now.
Today is Joy Sunday, or Gaudet Sunday. It’s not about a feeling of giddiness and happiness; joy is more about how we see and interact with the world in hope. It’s not so much a feeling as a state of being and outlook. Joy Sunday isn’t joyful because everything goes our way. It’s joyful because God’s vision is bigger than ours. Because Christ’s mercy is wider than our imagination. Because Jesus asks us, he invites us, to expect more of Him than we ever have before.
The great Reformed theologian of the last century, Karl Barth, once prayed:
Lord, may you now let us this year once more approach the light, celebration, and joy of Christmas Day that brings us face to face with the greatest thing there is: your love, with which you so loved the world that you gave your only Son, so that all of us may believe in Him and therefore not be lost, but may have eternal life.[1]
Make it so, dear Lord. Make it so. In the Name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen.
© 2025 Patrick H. Wrisley, Pastor, First Presbyterian Church of Glens Falls, 8 West Notre Dame Street, Glens Falls, New York, 12801. Sermon manuscripts are available for the edification of members and friends of First Presbyterian Church of Glens Falls and may not be altered, re-purposed, published or preached without permission. All rights reserved.
[1] Fifty Prayers by Karl Barth, https://a.co/cQ9Uiz9.




